He is my first serious boyfriend, and the one i lost my virginity to. Share 201. Just statistically speaking. I still love him but I know I have to accept that he doesn’t want me anymore. I was never insecure in my past few relationships. I’m Not in Love with My Spouse Anymore by Dave Willis On a recent episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast , Ashley and I discussed the common-but-tragic marriage dynamic that occurs when one or both spouses seems to lose interest in the marriage. ... "My boyfriend is awesome, but I'm not feeling that spark. but nothing special happened. We’d speak everyday and got on so well. I am only 22 years old and just recently had my son (almost 2 months old) with a man that I’m not in love with anymore. This is a hidden signs your boyfriend doesn’t find you attractive anymore. ‘I love my partner, but I’m not in love anymore’ As long as there’s mutual respect, the ‘love’ remains, but the lust and passion may have subsided Comments Like i cant even explain how much i love him but, everyday we fight over little things. But the “I love you but I’m not in love with you” pronouncement is almost always the closing bell. This is my story. My boyfriend is suddenly making me feel like I’m not wanted by him. perhaps starting a conversation with asking him if he's happy and to discuss his emotions might be a great place to start, because that unhappiness felt could be mutual! For me, facing the details of my own boyfriend’s life—that is, facing our differences—is uncomfortable for the very reason that I love him more than I have ever loved any man and, not only want a life with him, but know we could have a fulfilling life together. WD. but i am terrified at the thought of being alone, im not that close with my family, and dont have any friends, i am a trained singer/dancer but cant get a job doing it, so im working in an office which depresses me) part of me feels like going away on a cruise, if we split up (amically) i would love to. My boyfriend says that he is not happy anymore. He has college and work everyday and when he comes home he’s tired and I try to understand but it’s making me feel like he doesn’t love me anymore because he hardly shows me attention. He's always grabbing at me, which I know is just him expressing affection, but I find really irritating, especially when I'm in the middle of a chore. I love him and I feel I'll regret ending it, but I'm not happy anymore :(reply #22. If you love them and want to work things out and get back to a happy relationship, you can express your needs to your boyfriend or try to work toward a healthy relationship. and yes, i've told him how i feel and i've been hearing the 'i'm sorry, i love you, i will change ' thing over and over again. I was madly in love with my boyfriend of six months. ... but I cant, he doesnt interest me in anyway anymore. Big fights. Doesn’t try to make you happy. 15. I have a son with him (3 years old) I don't feel happy with him even we … I have been abused, lied too, talked down to, manipulated, cheated on and I’m just not happy anymore.. And haven’t been for awhile. i told it to him. Then, however, a friend who supported me throughout my entire process apparently came to love and respect my transformation as well. It's death by 1000 cuts. He gets mad at me for just about everything. He said that he loves me, he is in love with me but that he needs a few days to figure things out. I love you and I know you love me. 16. This is what happening to me, the same feeling. I guess I’m the odd ball out, but I’m perfectly happy with the way we are now. You might have to ask yourself why am I suddenly not attracted to my boyfriend. We were and essentially are best friends as well as two people in love. We communicated well if there ever was an issue. I love my boyfriend so much but I'm just not happy. After dating for a while, especially when you intensely meet your boyfriend everyday, you can’t help but feel bored. Love grows stronger the more you know someone, and if you’re in love, you’ll know it. i feel controlled. In fact, I’m almost positive he’s going to propose to me near my birthday, because I know that he’s going to want to start having kids and really settling down soon. In my teens, I began identifying as a bisexual, but my love for (and of) women has only increased with age. 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